Just found out that, people around me having certain symbols on them.
It is valid, tangible and for me, those symbols represent something.
If u want example, here you go..
Couple might plan to buy things that is similar and representative, like...a pair of bracelet..
Best friends(here i mean two same gender friends) are happy in buying or sharing the same things, juz among them, for example, two same shirts/pants, and also accessories..
A group of friends (perhaps mix up with both genders) always wanted something to represent themselves as well. The same rings, same shirts and so on are great for them, to show the INGROUP and OUTGROUP.
Yeah..that's the point..It is regardless of whether they buy rings, shirts, pants or bracelets, the main point is just to show people that they are pairs/groups, different from others in somewhere. It is to show that how ssstroooooong is their relationship/friendship.
Nothing..I don't mean anything to write all this in my blog..but I do realize all these happened in my daily life.
If a group of friends share something between them, perhaps..probably..they would not be able to share other ingroup characteristics with other friends. It is just like to be dual personality or the better word should be DID (dissociative identity disorder)..
Don't you think so?
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erm, i dont really agree about that..
sometime it's just a coincident that they pick the same pants, shirt, rings or watver.
it's not necessary in group, show off or wat so ever disorder. hanging around wid the same ppl for most of the time, more interaction between each other, naturally they'll have more similar perception on certain things which is depends on ind...
hmm..i know. What i really mean is, like wat u said, they spent most of the time together therefore they have certain "symbol" on them. when u joining certain group/friends, how can u take the same time to spend with other else?
时间是一种投资，当你把它放在这一边，你就顾不得另一边了。
so the symbol actually means that how much time u have invested into a relationship, when u share it in group A, u can't do the same thing into group B.
Can u get wat i mean? Cuz i also dunno wat i talking about now-.-
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